toddler-taming

1st week in, who else have already failed their new year resolution?
I am all for equipping ourselves with knowledge when it comes to parenting. If anyone else have any recommendations on books on how to deal with a toddler without losing our sanity, let me know.
On another note, I kinda amazed that no matter how many times I lose my shit with Ben, he just looked at me knowingly and , smiled and then changed the subject. I bet he learned that from his dad.